Ramani Durvasula4.452,191 ratings195 reviewsWant to ReadKindle $9.99Rate this book如果你在亲密关系中备感受挫，那么一定要及时意识到：不是你不好，而是TA太自恋。有这类人格障碍的人，心理状态是不稳定的，而你在不知不觉中成了“供给”来源。没有这些供给，自恋障碍机制就无法运作。TA们利用“供给”激发自己的积极情绪状态，从而将内心深层的不安全感转化成短期内的心理安全。阅读这本书不需要去费劲参悟心理学理论和大道理，在作者娓娓道来的故事和案例中，或许你的心底就已经有了答案。GenresPsychologyNonfictionSelf HelpRelationshipsMental HealthPersonal DevelopmentLove ...morePaperback
First published November 24, 2015
Book details & editions1118 people are currently reading5173 people want to readAbout the authorRamani Durvasula13 books1,141 followersFollowFollowDr. Ramani Durvasula is on a mission to demystify and dismantle the toxic influence of narcissism on all of our lives. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and Sherman Oaks, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, where she was named Outstanding Professor in 2012. She is also a Visiting Professor at the University of Johannesburg.She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist (Post Hill Press) She is also the author of You Are WHY You Eat: Change Your Food Attitude, Change Your Life, as well as the author of numerous peer reviewed journal articles, book chapters and conference papers. In September 2019, her overview book on narcissism in our world, our hearts, homes, and workplaces entitled DON'T YOU KNOW WHO I AM? How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility will be released. Dr. Ramani received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut, and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology from UCLA.She brings a wealth of expertise in relationships, sexuality, health and wellness. Dr. Ramani was the co-host of Oxygen’s series My Shopping Addiction, and has also been featured on series on Bravo, the Lifetime Movie Network, National Geographic, the History Channel, Discovery Science, and Investigation Discovery as well as in documentary films on health and narcissism. She has been a featured commentator on nearly every major television network, as well as radio, print, and internet media.Dr. Ramani is also involved in national governance in the field of psychology and has served as the chair of the Committee on Socioeconomic Status at the American Psychological Association and is presently chair of the Advisory Board of the Minority Fellowship Program of the American Psychological Association.Dr. Ramani recognizes that narcissism and technology have changed the landscape of love and relationships and provides keen insights on how to survive in the new territory of love and commitment.